Picture taken from: The Heart of a Musician
p.s: I know they say 'love knows no boundaries' but that doesn't mean you can go around sleeping with other people. Not all sayings are true! :P
Picture taken from: The Heart of a Musician
p.s: I know they say 'love knows no boundaries' but that doesn't mean you can go around sleeping with other people. Not all sayings are true! :P
At September 3, 2007 at 9:28 AM, eyries
what if the person cheated but is very very very damn sorry to the level he/she goes crazy to the max. i have had a friend who's gf got so crazy after she cheated on him she couldnt forgive herself and drowned herself in self-guilt and was so concious after that.
what if you know your partner is so very sorry and the pain that he/she goes through is so excruciating in self-punishment that you know he/she wont ever do it again?
will you treat it as the tide of a relationship and flaws in it. what if it wasnt getting emotionally attached but of more of a 1 night spur of the moment when your brain doesnt think. cos that was the situation that my friend's gf went thru.. she felt the burden of the guilt so badly that she had cheated on him.
to say goodbye when you know that he/she punished him/herself so badly for doin it when you know there wont be a next? i dont know whether people would gv these people a chance... but i imagine that some people purely learn. its a case to case basis i guess...
:)
everyone has their stand.
At September 4, 2007 at 2:50 AM, DjBenn
Well Eries, like I said, it depends on the situation. You may feel sorry for your friends gf but it happened, she cheated, end of story. Someone once said, You can forgive, but never forget. Maybe if you have it in you to try to work your relationship out, by all means, I guess I was abit harsh on the not forgiving part, isn't that what life is about, forgiving? but than again, its never the same, you'll always be wondering in the back of your mind if you can still trust that person, or bear the pain again?
I'm not tryin to say if someone cheats that's it for them, I'm just saying that don't let your emotions(pity, anger, bitterness whatever it is) affect your judgment. If you love that person a lot, than by all means work things out but if you don't, don't stay and continue your heartache just because she crys every night begging for forgiveness. Your only prolonging a dead relationship.
Everyone has their opinions, this is mine
according to your definition of cheating...it means i didn't cheat! :)
hahahaha i still love you ben!